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Some context from the OP, u/OreoHuman over at r/NiceGirls:
We had two phone calls during the 9 days wed been talking. Second was a video call, where it was clear her pictures didnt line up with reality. I didnt send any follow up msgs after the call, and after 2 days she sends a paragraph explaining that consistent communication is important, and Im clearly not interested, so this is goodbye.
I say I understand, she sends an essay worth of messages asking if Im sure and explaining that her face was swollen from allergies, and I didnt seem interested during the call at all.
I responded with I think youre a lovely woman, and it was nice getting to know you. If Im being honest, jumping to quitting off lack of communication without attempting to communicate doesnt send the best message. But I feel like the person you need isnt something I can provide. Im sorry.
She unmatched on the app afterwards, and by the next morning I unfollowed her main IG cause why would I stay connected (also her IG story). She somehow realized Id unfollowed her within 20 minutes of the fact, asked me why I unfollowed her. I said I felt bad continuing to follow you and figured youd prefer I didnt. She asked why Id feel bad, I say because I feel like I let you down.
She sends another paragraph acting bemused that Id feel bad since we dont know each other, she wasnt even upset, and some other shit I cant remember. I ignore it.
One day later, she adds, dont feel bad. I have options. You dont. Youre just a super tiny guy with a drug habit. (Note: because I smoke weed sometimes) Maybe you should go back to therapy. All the best. So I said wow I really dodged a bullet, you need help and blocked her. Then this happened.